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"Keep being you, always. 💯"

 I went through something that had me feeling like I was stuck in a plot twist.

So, I was super close to one of my friends—like, meme-sharing, inside-jokes level of close. And then... poof... she just stopped texting.

Single grey tick after single grey tick. No explanation. No “Hey, I’m busy.” Just silence.


And what made it worse? She was still chatting with everyone else. But, you know, I was left in the chat's dark corner.


Naturally, I turned into an overthinking machine: “Did I send a weird meme?” “Did I accidentally say something off?” “I swear I didn’t ghost her first!”


It was exhausting. So, I went to my mom for some wisdom. And she said, “Whatever happens, don’t change who you are. Just talk to her like nothing happened. That’s how you grow.”

(Thanks, mom, for being the real MVP.)


So, I did what any emotionally drained person would do—I dove into hobbies. Watched Movies, learned baking on my own, scribbled in my journal, ate snacks... you know, the usual healing routine. Slowly, I got back to my groove.


Then, guess what? She came back. Like nothing ever happened.

And said sorry.

Now, I don’t know if I should be happy or like... did I mess up somehow?

But, nah, it wasn’t me. I realized, ghosting is just part of life. It’s like getting an “unsent message” from the universe.


So, yeah, life’s weird like that. People will come and go, and sometimes they leave without explanation—but guess what? It’s okay. You’re still gonna be fine.




Realization:


People will ghost, glitch, and come back like an old Wi-Fi connection.

But whatever happens—stay true to you. Keep doing your thing.

 Don’t let someone’s temporary silence dim your permanent vibe.

And if they apologize? Great. If not? Still, you’re killing it.


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