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"The Solo Child Chronicles"

Being an only child always felt like winning some kind of secret jackpot. No toy snatchers, no closet space wars, no sharing TV time with a sibling obsessed with cartoons. It was all mine — the love, the silence, the snacks, the remote. Kindergarten friends used to complain about their siblings tearing pages or scribbling in their books, and there I was — flipping perfect pages and color-coding my pencils, feeling like royalty.


Mom raised me like I was in an Olympic competition for “Perfection.” Everything had to be clean, proper, and a little Pinterest-worthy. Honestly, I was the “ideal kid” in my neighborhood — the one aunty-next-door always compared her son with. Sorry, Rahul.


But as I grew up, things shifted. That luxury started feeling a bit... different. Especially when classmates shared those crazy sibling fights or late-night laughter stories. I realized I had no one to share random things with — like the last piece of cake or a dumb inside joke. And slowly, loneliness walked in like an uninvited relative who overstays.


But here's the twist — loneliness shaped me. It made me independent. Strong. The kind of person who overthinks, yes — but also overcomes. I became the decision-maker, the memory-keeper, the mini-adult of the house. When you're the only one, you're not just the child — you're the whole hope package.


Of course, it gets scary at times. Being your parents’ everything is a huge responsibility. It feels like carrying an invisible emotional backpack that’s filled with love... and occasional anxiety. But there’s also unmatched comfort in knowing your parents live for you, do everything for you, and love you more than anything. That love becomes your anchor.


And no, I don't need anyone else for emotional support — not because I’m cold-hearted, but because I’m trained like that. Been through enough solo missions, thank you. But yes, even emotionally independent people get lonely. And when you look around and see there's no one to call your “go-to,” it stings. But strangely, that sting teaches you to stand taller.


Luckily, I have parents who are also my friends. I can rant, laugh, cry, and even gossip with them. That’s a blessing I’ll never take for granted.


So, to all the only children out there — yes, we missed out on sibling wars and bedtime gossip. But we gained something even cooler: resilience, depth, and the power to survive boredom without backup. Be proud of your solo journey — it’s not lonely, it’s legendary.

 

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