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"Silence Isn’t the Absence of Words; It’s the Presence of Truth"

Ever felt that weird shift when someone you trusted suddenly starts acting different?

That quiet change, no explanations—just distance. It’s in moments like these that some truths hit hardest.

 First of all, the biggest mistake some of us make (yes, me too): trusting friends blindly.

Even when our inner sense knows that at some point, they might walk away, we still fall into that trap. Why? Because we’re human.

It’s natural.

And it’s fine too.

But eventually… it affects us. Mentally, emotionally, and psychologically.


Especially when you’re the one who gets affected by others’ actions—while they walk around acting cold and unapologetic.

It’s honestly one of the worst experiences someone can go through.

And I think, at some point in life, everyone goes through this phase.


You understand people better through these incidents.

And learn that giving the wrong people your time, energy, and emotions will only drain you.


What annoys the most is when people start playing the victim card like,

“I didn’t do anything,”

“Why are you being like this?”

It hurts when you gave them your 100% and they still flip the blame.


Sometimes, we assume that the people we let into our close circle have also let us into theirs.

But most of the time, that’s not true.

And when reality hits, it hits hard.


Blaming us for things they did and then playing innocent?

It’s exhausting.

And the best way to deal with this kind of behavior is emotional withdrawal.

The more you put effort into people like this, the more it’ll hurt you.


Don’t yell.

Don’t explain.

Don’t ask “why?”

Just be silent.

Let your silence speak.


Betraying friends for no reason…

Acting cool and normal afterward…

Jumping into other groups suddenly…

Showing attitude to those who actually cared…

And then coming back later saying, “you acted cold to me”—

No. Just no.


You don’t deserve that kind of treatment.


And here’s the worst part:

You can’t even explain it to them.

Because they’ll never get it.

They don’t want to get it.


So, instead of wasting energy explaining what they broke,

Be emotionally unavailable to them—without being obvious.


Stay silent.

Watch everything.

One day, they’ll understand what they lost.

Till then, just shut your mouth and observe quietly.


Period.

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